2009...

Time for my year end review.
I'm not going to lie, its been hella rough - in fact the damn year started off horribly for me - New Years Day - woke up with a HORRIBLE stomach flu and had to miss rehearsal the DAY BEFORE WE OPENED. Happy New Year to me. Ouch. 2009 has been a rough year. So many of us - more then ever - fighting the crashing economy, unemployment, etc etc. It blew. It blew hard. I dont think alot of people are going to be sad to see 2009 go - Dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!!! But anyhoo - It aint all bad - so here's my year end review:
January
I was in a show at Rude Guerrilla - Love Song. It did ok. Wasnt one of my favorite experiences, but I do always love being onstage. I think my favorite part of January was I had signed up for Kickball! I played for 2 seasons, sadly we're not playing currently but there is talk of starting back up again in the Spring. I met some fantastic new people and have made some more great friends! Kickball is a blast, you play (yup-same game as when you were 8!) then head to the bar afterwards and play Flip Cup. Our team was the Drunken Degenerates. No - we werent a great team, but we certainly always had the best time!
February
Superbowl Sunday - partied at Marky's, but sadly later that night I ended my relationship with Shawn. We're still friends, he was a great guy but we just were not meant to be. So of course - Valentine's Day brought my Anti-Valentines Day Bowling Bash! A group of friends met up at Strike OC and had a great fucking time! Later on that month was my bday. 33. It was a rainy crappy day so a bunch of my faboo friends met up at District Lounge in Orange and celebrated me. Good times!
March
I got a job. Out of desperation I took a job at the Symphony. I cant say I'm happy there, but I'm doing the best I can. March also brought a fantastic OCC reunion at Bistro 400. We had a great party that night and saw some old faces I've missed so much. A sad part of March brought the closing of Rude Guerrilla. We did a reading that night and closed our doors to a full house. The theater was filled with laughter, tears and overwhelming emotion. I had gone through the closing of the opera a few months prior and closing down the theater I'd been a huge part of for so many years was almost too much for me to take. That was a tough month.
April
April of course always brings Easter! We had our usual bash - lots of friends this year and our annual "Adult Easter Egg" hunt. The war was a good one this year - lots of laughter and a few bruises. We also had a fabulous Tea Party for Miss Jenn's baby shower. Wonderful turn out, lots of lovely ladies - hats and all - for a darling Tea Party - mini sandwiches and all. Later that month April brought us our beautiful little Bella. Welcome to the world little one.
May
May of course is Doheny Blues Festival. This year Shane and D joined Dad, T and I for a day/evening of amazing music - topped off by BB King and an earthquake. Yup - he rocks that hard. Another fabulous concert was Gogol Bordello - as per usual! A handful of us got a hotel up in Pomona and watched Gogol tear it up as always.
Had a faboo kickball BBQ that month as well at my bro's house - lots of drinking, games and people getting thrown in the pool. Later on in May I headed to Havasu with the boys. Drove myself this year and got a mobile home with 3 other ladies. The weather was perfect this year and we had a blast!
June
Most of June was spent at the Bro's house lounging in the pool with friends and fam. Sunday Fundays are the best! There was a Kickball Bike Pub Crawl somewhere in there, some hiking in Irvine Park and a very chill Daddy's Day. This was the month I also attended Jenna's wedding. This is a little one I used to babysit - watching her walk down the aisle aged me slightly. She of course made a beautiful bride and the wedding was gorgeous. We also had a surprise party for our friend Mr. Dorman - huge turn out, great night. Mom, Petey and I threw a Beach Themed Tea Party this month as well. Wonderful food and wonderful friends.
July
Fair Time!!!!! I only went twice this year. Jay took me one night and treated me like a princess. Dad and I went, this year joined by so many more and had a drunken good time. More Sunday Fundays. July was also the Punk Rock Baby Shower for one of my best friends Mitzy. It fucking ruled. I think mom and I have moved up even higher in the party throwing world. Dammit I love that we know how to throw a party. I also accompained Miss Ber to Mighty Mighty Bostones that month - had never seen them live and was so glad I did - They rock! But the biggest highlight this month was Kelly's Beach. There is a prior blog of course, but Holy Hell - talk about a crazy weekend! 105, 6 hour float down the river, more booze then I've seen in a long time - so much fun - little nutty - little overwhelming - but I'm totally in for next year and I'm sure Miss T will be right there with me!
August
This month was a bit brutal. One of my dear friends had a massive stroke. It was one of the toughest weeks of my life. It took everything in my power to be the rock they needed and not fall apart. He's doing amazingly now and I am so thankful for that. It brought alot of us closer together, but was quite trying to say the least.
Later on that month I drove to Texas. Yup, a comrade and I drove to San Antonio for a conference - the day by day blog is here, but lord - never again. The start of month was a good one for sure - we had our (whats becoming annual) trip to Vegas with the girls. So much fun as we usually do and I did quite a bit of damage in the shopping sections as well....
And of course August brought us our beautiful little punk rocker Simon. Welcome to the world rockstar!
September
Was a month of shows. Saw Paulo Nutini and Airborne Toxic Event in concert and saw a handful of friends of mine in theater productions. September of course also brings Street Fair Weekend. I beleive I partied the ENTIRE weekend. Drinking, eating, bike riding, etc etc etc. So much fun!!!
October
October began with a weekend away at our San Clemente time share. So relaxing and just what the Dr. ordered. T came down and we did a spur of the moment concert trip - saw The Agrolytes - never knew em, now love them. We also saw Gogol again that month and got to bring the bro - he now loves them as well. This was also the month I threw a very successful fundraiser for Petey. We raised tons of funds and had a lovely time. And what would October be without Halloween!!! Our usual crew got together and went to Haunt - this time hotel style. So much fun. I also threw my annual Halloween Party here at the house. Costumes were fantastic!! I love love the creativity my friends bring!
November
Rollin into the holidays. Thanksgiving was perfect. Nice and chill and humourous. Monday night football at Tommy's Pastrami becoming a regular occurence.
December
Here we are. Christmas has come and gone. It was very nice and very mellow. Julie/Gabe threw a great holiday party earlier this month. I get a few days off next week and plan on bringing in the New Year with my bro and friends.
So there it is. 2009 is pretty much done. This year has been full of good and bad, and the weird thing is - extreme good and bad. I suppose it balances out? I've met some fun boys, had some dates, have some crushes but I'm still single. Happily single though, no pining right now. My job has been excrutiating, but I'm hoping something works out in that area - thats a tough one that will take some major soul searching I believe. My body is terrilby out of shape and angry - but thats my next main focus. I dont make resolutions, but I do plan on getting off my lazy ass and taking care of it asap. I've made some really great new friends, I've become closer to some of my friends and grown apart from others. This of course is always bittersweet but things always happen for a reason right? I'm broke. I'm no sooner moving out of here then I was this time last year, but then again - who isnt. So its time. Time for change. Time for a new year and new possibilties. I'm cautiously optomistic for 2010. I think its going to be good. I really do.

Happy New Year my blog readers! I appreciate you all paying me a visit here, and following my wacky writings. I love you all and wish you the best in the upcoming New Year!